Love Portion of Beauty and Love

So this is the second half of the last post it was going to be a separate post but I left Love on the last post. "Love is Blind" There is so many ways to take this simple statement. The fact that beauty is in the eye of beholder. That the beholder if truly in love will not to be able to see the flaws in the object of the affection. But there is a different way to take it. This second take explains why stalkers exist, why people do very harmful things to people they love. Love is blind, it is unable to see the negative things you do to the ones they love. This can range from the truth to the person or physical harm. But on the flip side. People can ask questions they know they wont like the truth. And usually will be upset by the answer, if the one they love answers with the truth. I am not talking about messing around or anything negative or bad. I am speaking of the questions which are opinions, where there should be no right answer or wrong answer. The other situation this applies to is when loved ones dont speak the truth to their partners they speak what the other wants to hear. This leads to misunderstanding. When one partner wants the other to be a mind reader and understand the undertone of what is being said. I use partner and not woman or man in these statements for a couple reasons. Sometimes what is typical from a man can come from a woman and vice versa. The typical statements that "Men say the truth and woman just ingnore what they say and read their actions. And men do not go by what they do but what they say." can have the roles easily reversed. So people need to understand what people say and what they do and hope that what they deduce is the intended response. Because sadly it is human nature to do things to provoke a response.