Sex

What attributes do you look for in the person you want to have sex with? Is experience a determining factor? I think it should boil down to a few things. The first is how the person interacts with other people in general. I can't put a term to this quality because I am educated by experience not proper schooling. To take a slice of the general that most people would think of, I am speaking of the interaction of whose needs come first. Is the person more worried about others comfort then their own or are they worried about themselves. In sex if the person is more worried about satisfying themselves, most likely the other party will not be satisfied leaving the partner wanting. But on the flip side, if the individual devotes the experience to the other person and finds joy from the interaction their sexual experience will be more enjoyable. The second I will discuss is another thought vice quality. It either can be described in two ways, is the person satisfied with his performance or do they always strive for perfection or just bettering themselves never satisfied with the status quo. Or does the person always strive to know more? Either case the sexual experience will build each time as they strive to increase the sexual pleasures of their partner each time. This leads into another thought, Does the person need to be shown or taught? Or does the person continue trying until he gets it correct? Yes, there will be situations that specific instruction is required, but in general which is the rule? This has the flip side, does the person enjoy receiving or giving instruction. These last two have to be taken into consideration together. They play off each other. Physical beauty should be a consideration and is a inhibitor on the most basic level. But more times then not some individuals live a life that ignores this to relieve this desire. This is only a few of the basic thoughts that should be considered.