Lonely

Why is it that unless you are with someone you feel alone? "No man is an Island" comes to mind as I ask this question. Why are some people designed to desire company when they are alone, but after a while they just want peace and quiet. To find the balance of the two. To find happiness in the moment, and to look at each decision as an individual moment. You are not defined by what people say about you, you are defined by your actions. With that you should not overstress your decisions unless the decision process is warped. You will contemplate decisions but to decide before you create stress is the desired process. What inhibits people to share? What encourages people to share? It is not clear to share or not share is a rule. You must consider the factors, will not telling induce stress into yourself and lack of understanding in the person you are telling. Will it hurt someone that you tell or will it devastate the individual it is about if they find out about it from someone beside you? You should not be worried the aftermath in respect to the relationship or friendship with the person. You should trust they will see your situation and understand the motive of telling them. So ensure your motives are pure.